How can I want to want to have sex?

I received a few different versions of this question from my female readers:

“I think I might be asexual. Perhaps I did enjoy sex with my partner at some stage, and the truth is it’s not horribly bad – he’s actually making an effort to please me – but I’m just never in the mood. I’d rather do other things

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The 30-Minutes Quicky

I have received a few emails from my female readers about the way they’re experiencing sex with their long-term partners.

They go something like this:

“We are committed and we love each other very much but the sex is not that great. Although he tries to please me, makes sure I come before he does (or at least gives it … Read more

The TEDx Talk that Didn’t

I have shared a few TED and TEDx talks on this blog before.

Talks that are bold, moving, and informative.

I wanted to share another inspiring TEDx talk with you. The only problem is, it never took place.

Sometimes, when the message involves the topic of sex and sexuality, people freak out.

That’s exactly what happened to Kit Murray Maloney.… Read more

Closing the Orgasm Gap

The orgasm gap is a term that refers to the well-researched reality that, generally speaking, men tend to have more orgasms than women while having sex.

I would like to suggest an unorthodox approach to the reason why it exists. And to present a thought-provoking idea of how to eradicate it completely.

Why is there an orgasm gap?

After millennia … Read more

How to Let Go in Bed.

The importance of letting go in bed couldn’t be stressed highly enough.

Most of us have heard this and we understand that in order to fully enjoy the highs of sexual arousal with a man, and in order to be able to climax, we need to let go.

To quote Dr. Louanne Brizendine from her book The Female Brain:… Read more