How Can I Tell If I’m Still Attracted to My Partner?

Someone confided in me recently that she thinks she is not attracted to her partner anymore. She is hardly ever excited by the idea of having sex with him, even though other aspects of their relationship are pretty good. What gives? Studies suggest that women in long-term relationships have a different pattern of desire than the [...]

Slow Sex as Experienced by Men – Part II

April 2016. A friend's 70th birthday party. In front of a beautiful campfire under the stars, a few friends shared a sincere discussion on the topic of sex. And although it looks like most of the people that were present (myself included), wanted to open up and talk freely, we were all just skimming the surface [...]