Why Monogamy is So Difficult, and Why Non-Monogamy is Not Necessarily The Answer.

If you are like many people in long-term relationships, I bet the question of opening your relationship to new adventures has crossed your mind. It's a hot debate. I get asked about it a lot, and it seems people are thinking about it more often than they would be willing to admit. As for myself, … Continue reading Why Monogamy is So Difficult, and Why Non-Monogamy is Not Necessarily The Answer.

The Secret to Desire in Long-Term Relationships: A TED Talk by Esther Perel

If you haven't heard about Esther Perel, this is a brilliant introduction. She wrote the bestseller: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. And she's one of my heroes. Here are some of the many intelligent things she has to say: "This is the first time in the history of humankind where we are trying to experience sexuality … Continue reading The Secret to Desire in Long-Term Relationships: A TED Talk by Esther Perel