There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex. It could be a medication (antidepressants and hormonal contraceptives are the most infamous, but there are plenty of others) that’s the root cause of your loss of libido. Sometimes, it’s the consequence of sexual trauma that is lurking around and has a tremendously negative … Continue reading What to do if you lost interest in sex:
#1: I'm too busy. Busy busy busy. Between being a single mum and working on the Women's Sexuality Online Conference, I don't have much time to write. I don't have much time to socialize. I don't have much time to think about anything that is not parenting or project-specific. This is not a complaint! I love … Continue reading Why I Haven’t Been Writing about Sex Lately.
Shame: “ a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.” We know that there is nothing wrong or foolish about having sex, or with wanting to have sex, but we still feel ashamed. Or at least embarrassed. This has got to stop. Most of us grew up in … Continue reading Want to break free from shame around your sexuality?