Slow sex, once again, is the answer. Recently, a reader wrote to me saying she can’t have sex with her partner if there’s any discord in the relationship. If she does have sex from this space, it’s far from ideal. This is what she wrote: I’m just not 100% there with my partner. I end … Continue reading How Can … Read more
What is a healthy sex life? There are many versions of a healthy sex life. It looks different from one person to the next and changes a few times in the course of a lifetime. I asked sexologist, sex therapist, and couples therapist Isiah McKimmie, who works with clients around the globe, for her definition of … Continue reading Recipe for … Read more
My 48-year-old friend told me about his dating experience with a millennial. They went on one date. She didn’t want to date him again, and she told him why. She said, he blew it because he wasn’t confident enough to ask for sex. I once dated a millennial, too. Second date, he invited me to … Continue reading 8 Dating … Read more