The TEDx Talk that Didn’t

I have shared a few TED and TEDx talks on this blog before. Talks that are bold, moving, and informative. I wanted to share another inspiring TEDx talk with you. The only problem is, it never took place. Sometimes, when the message involves the topic of sex and sexuality, people freak out. That's exactly what [...]

The Law of Attraction and Sex.

Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? It's been a buzz word for a while some ten-years ago, and I think these days most people have some understanding of what it means. If you never read the book the Law of Attraction by Jerry and Esther Hicks, or saw the film (or read the book) [...]

I have yet to experience a G-Spot Orgasm.

The other day I had the honor of speaking to Xanet Pailet, the woman behind The Power of Pleasure. She said she had a different experience to something I wrote about orgasms. In my article "Things everything should know about the female orgasm" I stated that - an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. I mentioned that science [...]

I Want to Tell You About Arousal NonConcordance

I want the entire world to read Emily Nagosky's book Come As You Are. I mentioned her work here, with a link to her TEDx talk which summarises the most important principles from her book. One of the things which she explains in her book, which is what I would like to discuss here, is the [...]

Becoming a Confident Lover.

Meet the confident lover. A lover that expects that every sexual encounter will be absolutely enjoyable, both for themselves and for their partner. He or she is assured that what they do in bed will result in satisfaction. For the confident lover, sex is fun, exciting and fulfilling. Time and time again. Would you like [...]

I Let Go. This is What Happened. Now What?

What is letting go? Perhaps you came across this term before. In an early blog post, I talked about letting go in bed. By this, I meant how to enjoy yourself in bed without allowing your thoughts to ruin it for you. In another blog post (about monogamy), I mentioned the Sedona Method which is a [...]

Bloody Period.

I wanted to write this blog post since way before I started my website. It's about a truth so empowering and so unbelievable that I was a little afraid to share it with the world. I was fearing you'd think I'm a radical hippie. Which I'm not. What to do with all this blood? When [...]

The Last Blog Post of 2017

I started this blog in March 2017. I published a blog post every single week ever since. And I very quickly realized that my message is not unique. There are so many amazing people out there doing a similar work. Our message might vary slightly, but the similarities way outweigh the differences. What we're saying [...]

Reflections on a Sexy Christmas.

Last year, Christmas was outstanding. My daughter was away for a couple of days, spending Christmas with her dad. And I had time by myself, alone in the house on the outskirts of Sydney - along with the Eucalypts, the birds, and the quietness. I was really looking forward to staying at home and doing [...]