For someone who writes about sex and relationships, I am as naive as it gets.
Who am I kidding?
I am naive in any standard, regardless of me writing about relationships and sex.
I seem to always have an underlying assumption that the people I encounter along the way are the responsible, mature, conscientious kind.
Even when it comes to … Read more
We were a group of friends at a bachelorette party cruise on the harbor. There were lots of other groups, some bigger, some smaller. All with their own bachelorette on the last party before holy matrimony.
The bachelorettes were all recognizable by their mock wedding dress costumes. There was lots of giggling and laughter.… Read more
If you are in a long-term relationship, and you have sex once a month on average (or less), your relationship is considered to be a sexless marriage.
It is such a sad term.
And it is estimated to affect a good 15%-20% of couples who share their lives together. … Read more
Have you watched the Seinfeld episode “The Abstinence”? In this episode, George doesn’t have sex for 6 weeks and gradually transforms into a genius.
The theory that is conveyed in that Seinfeld episode is that if you shift your focus from sex, your sexual energy could be harnessed into productive deeds.
In other words, if you just stop … Read more
I used to think that guys being concerned about their penis size is just a myth.
Boy, was I wrong.
Men who write to me either implicitly tell me they fear their penis is too small, or they just casually raise the topic of penis sizes in general. According to this study, it is something … Read more
Lately, I see lots of stories about anal sex.
Some writers explain why they like it, some writers explain why they don’t.
Some explain how amazing it feels as the receiver, others tell how good it is as the giver, and some are disgusted by the sheer thought of pushing anything inside the butt hole.
It’s great to learn from … Read more
The other day I published a story in which I mentioned that my ex called me a prude.
I lied. He did not call me a prude. At least, not until after he read my article and joked about it.
But I received a few comments and emails … Read more
I had a fight with my ex yesterday.
We met for what was supposed to be a catch-up and a swim in the ocean, and we ended up in a tangle.
I accused him of wanting to have sex with me, he accused me of being a prude. What can I tell you, it was not much fun.
Now I … Read more
I write mainly about sex. Which makes me some sort of an authority on the matter, right? And some would think that I have sex all the time.
This is definitely not the case.
I have had many — and lengthy — dry spells. With no sex at all.
Actually, I’m in the midst of one right now, seeing my … Read more
Many people are under the impression that sex starts amazingly wonderful in a new relationship, only to then decline with time.
It is not necessarily the case.
Actually, plenty of couples get to enjoy a tremendously satisfying sex life for years and years on end.
An online study that circulated in … Read more