When you were three years old, you knew nothing about gender expression. You had long hair that was curling at the bottom, hair which I adored and enjoyed brushing and tying. Only you didn't like it. You wanted short hair like your best friend's, Theo. You insisted and persisted. I had a chat to you … Continue reading Thoughts about Parenting, Gender, and Sexuality.
First thing's first. I dislike the word masturbation. It sounds a bit clinical and somehow degrading. I much rather use terms like solo sex, or self-pleasuring. They are more beautiful and in line with conveying the new paradigm of sex that I am promoting. But... My title is so much better for search engines so … Continue reading Female Masturbation, Slow Sex Style
This one is for you if you are uncomfortable with sex and your sexuality. It's for you if the thought of sex makes you cringe a little. Or if you have mixed emotions of excitement and "yuckiness" and everything in between. It's also for you if you have an active, seemingly magnificent sex life, but … Continue reading Crossing the Line to Turn On Your Sex Life:
Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it. I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model. It didn't take me too long to disable comments on my site. Phew. Every now and … Continue reading Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.
When I started this blog, I was in a really beautiful relationship. It was the best relationship of my life so far. We had lots of things in common. We had a very intimate connection. The sex was the best I ever experienced with anyone. And the way we communicated with each other, verbally and … Continue reading Some on dating.
If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. It's written for those who invest, men that are totally turned on by the concept of making their partner happy in bed. It's also for men who heard about sexless marriages and want to avoid it in their relationship. … Continue reading This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.
I have been dealing with some anger in my life in recent years. You could detect some of my anger-influenced articles like this one about hormonal contraceptives or this one about Tantra. It's not directly related to women's sexuality, but indirectly, it does. Did a partner ever ask you if your period is nearly due … Continue reading Anger
A little while ago I wrote an article — “How to let go in bed”. In it, I addressed the most common reasons why women find it difficult to completely let go and surrender. I also listed a few practices that we can do, ongoingly, to help us release the tension surrounding our sexuality, generally. … Continue reading More on How To Let Go in Bed
Up until 12 years ago or so, I was really dissatisfied with my sex life. I was in a long-term relationship that could easily be described as sexless. We hardly had sex, and when we did, it wasn't that great - for either of us. We hardly talked about our sex life. I'm only guessing my … Continue reading It’s that confidence thing I tell ya’.
Most people think that miracles are something extraordinary. Like the parting of the sea, or the resurrection. This is how Google defines a miracle: an extraordinary and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore attributed to a divine agency. Truth is, it’s a miracle that you are even … Continue reading This is about Miracles.