Some people are still under the impression that sex is something that women give to men.
When someone writes that:
…wives who consistently limit sex with their husbands to once per week… …are called ‘ex-wives.’
He implies that there is absolutely no partnership. There are two individuals: the husband, who wants sex more often than once per week; and the wife, … Read more
My eyes are closed. I’m enjoying some special touch from my partner. It feels so beautiful and I’m flying into the clouds and landing on the soft ground, surrounded by brown autumn leaves.
A fraction of a second later and I’m back to reality. Oh, I’m having sex, am I? A … Read more
Drs John and Julie Gottman are not your ordinary celebrity couple. In fact, if you never researched the topic of relationships, there’s a good chance you don’t know who they are. Which is a shame, because they are probably the perfect role-model of an ideal … Read more
If you ever cried during your orgasm and wondered what the fuck it was all about, the answer is quite simple.
The orgasm created a chain reaction that resulted in the release of some tension from your emotional body. Nothing more, nothing less.
Perhaps you knew what this tension was about. But possibly, you had no clue.
It’s not … Read more
I recently resurrected my online dating profile.
I’m back on a mission to find a suitable match and I’m taking it semi-seriously.
One of the things which I tend to do, is look at the match percentage with potential candidates. I love this feature. Saves me some “interview questions” when we actually meet.
One very interesting question which I come … Read more
You know how sex at the start of a relationship is exciting and intoxicating?
You know how sex later on in the same relationship becomes boring and predictable?
Well, it doesn’t have to be this way.
And before I introduce you to the two approaches that will keep your sex life something to look forward to, … Read more
For someone who writes about sex and relationships, I am as naive as it gets.
Who am I kidding?
I am naive in any standard, regardless of me writing about relationships and sex.
I seem to always have an underlying assumption that the people I encounter along the way are the responsible, mature, conscientious kind.
Even when it comes to … Read more
We were a group of friends at a bachelorette party cruise on the harbor. There were lots of other groups, some bigger, some smaller. All with their own bachelorette on the last party before holy matrimony.
The bachelorettes were all recognizable by their mock wedding dress costumes. There was lots of giggling and laughter.… Read more
If you are in a long-term relationship, and you have sex once a month on average (or less), your relationship is considered to be a sexless marriage.
It is such a sad term.
And it is estimated to affect a good 15%-20% of couples who share their lives together. … Read more
Have you watched the Seinfeld episode “The Abstinence”? In this episode, George doesn’t have sex for 6 weeks and gradually transforms into a genius.
The theory that is conveyed in that Seinfeld episode is that if you shift your focus from sex, your sexual energy could be harnessed into productive deeds.
In other words, if you just stop … Read more