A little while ago, I wrote an article about the power of using the right words to describe sex and love. When it comes to love songs, things get ridiculous. You know how many stupid (pardon my French) songs I hear on the radio that make me cringe? Some of them are songs I grew … Continue reading Sexy Music
There's a common advice I came across a few times, given for women at the beginning stages of dating a man. The advice is to not let the guy dictate the pace of progress of the sexual frontier. Without going to all the details of the advice, the theory goes something like this. Guys' interest in … Continue reading It is your responsibility to take things slowly.
I had an interesting discussion with one of my readers, about teachers and teachings. There are so many amazing teachers out there, and at the end of the day, each one of us will resonate with a different teacher. There's nothing wrong with that. And still... Some teachers (or organizations that take it upon themselves … Continue reading When teachings get awkward.
The end of January is just around the corner and I was wondering. In case you are hoping to make 2019 "The year I became so amazingly satisfied with my sex life." Have you thought what would actually make it happen? What is this thing that is missing from your life that would transform your … Continue reading The Secret of Becoming Confident in Your Sexuality.
My guy recently did a 3-day water fast and raved how good it made him feel. I was curious and decided to try it myself. Who knows? I might feel so good so why not? Now, I am no health-guru and I won't go over the health benefits and risks of such a fast. If … Continue reading Fasting and the Slow Sex
I received a few different versions of this question from my female readers: "I think I might be asexual. Perhaps I did enjoy sex with my partner at some stage, and the truth is it's not horribly bad - he's actually making an effort to please me - but I'm just never in the mood. … Continue reading How can I want to want to have sex?
The end of the fairytale. Our three months old baby was resting in the sling on my partner's chest. We were standing outside the complex where our friends live, the ones he sent me to speak to because he could not bring himself to do it himself. He equipped me with specific instructions of what to … Continue reading A Convoluted Fairytale.
I have received a few emails from my female readers about the way they're experiencing sex with their long-term partners. They go something like this: "We are committed and we love each other very much but the sex is not that great. Although he tries to please me, makes sure I come before he does (or at … Continue reading The 30-Minutes Quicky
I think that confident lovers don't need my advice. They simply tell their partner what they want in sex. Easy. It's pretty much what I do these days. I almost forgot how I used to feel so embarrassed. Actually, I didn't tell my partner what I want and I what I need in bed. And … Continue reading Too Uncomfortable to Ask
A couple of weeks ago I asked you to send me your questions about sex and sexuality. And the questions I received inspired me to write quite a few blog posts. The first one I would like to start with is the one that will answer probably what underlines a good 95% of the questions. … Continue reading The Road Map to Solve Most of Your Issues Around Sex.