I have never had a model type body. My body was always a bit bigger, a bit thicker than what the society I grew up in made me believe it should be. I've done tons of work around my body issues. Specifically, I was working on being OK with however my body looks like, even … Continue reading I Actually … Read more
A few months ago, at the start of the Black Lives Matter upheaval,I came across a meme that really gave me the shits.It was a Facebook post, in which a white man was holding a placard that read something like:"Lives matter.Anyone that adds anything to the start of this sentence is a racist"Obviously, ultimately, it's … Continue reading It’s Not … Read more
Remember Cinderella? Well. She had an evil stepmother and wicked sisters alright. And she was kind and humble and oppressed. But she wasn't exceptionally pretty or anything. She was just plain. And wild. Early on in her life, she realized that she doesn’t fit in. She loved being outdoors, enjoying the beauty of nature.She could … Continue reading No one … Read more
Today I wanted to share with you something that you might be surprised to learn. But first, a bit of background. I started my slow-sex journey about 15 years ago now. I was in a long term relationship that was far from ideal,And our sex life was quite miserable. On the rare occasions we did have … Continue reading This Is … Read more
I've been writing about sex for a few years.I think sex should be something everyone feels comfortable talking about.But... (Confession drum rolls please):I don't really have all that much experience with sex. I didn't have that many sex partners.And of the three serious relationships I was in, 2 could have easily been considered "sexless". My … Continue reading The Slow-Style … Read more
We’ve been seeing each other for nearly 6 months now. Not regularly and not all that often, I’m afraid, but enough to have lots of sex. Which we both enjoy. Tremendously. And we have both not had an orgasm whilst having sex with each other.Not even once. I suppose some people might raise an eyebrow. … Continue reading 6 Months … Read more
Today, I have a few questions for you. Can you imagine yourself having the most fulfilling love life ever?One in which sex is a joyous form of connecting with your partner? If your answer is "Yes", let me ask you another question: what needs to happen in order to transform your love life to create this joyous connection?If … Continue reading Finding and … Read more
And finally, you had someone to ask. Here are some questions I received from my readers lately, including my answers. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions of your own. Question 1:HOW TO OPEN UP AND TALK ABOUT SEX WITH MY PARTNER? How do I get past talking about what I want, … Continue reading All You … Read more
If you ever felt that using lube is not natural, this article is for you. Some people think there’s something wrong about using lube. There is shame about needing to use it, and shame about wanting to use it. The idea behind it is that if the female body was aroused enough, it should be producing … Continue reading The … Read more
Our love affair started and ended with COVID-19. But COVID-19 is here to stay for the foreseeable future — and so is our relationship. February 2020. It’s our second date. I am recovering from a cold and my nose is still blocked. I excuse myself every few minutes to blow my nose. Coronavirus will soon become COVID-19. … Continue reading … Read more