I think that confident lovers don't need my advice. They simply tell their partner what they want in sex. Easy. It's pretty much what I do these days. I almost forgot how I used to feel so embarrassed. Actually, I didn't tell my partner what I want and I what I need in bed. And … Continue reading Too Uncomfortable to Ask
A couple of weeks ago I asked you to send me your questions about sex and sexuality. And the questions I received inspired me to write quite a few blog posts. The first one I would like to start with is the one that will answer probably what underlines a good 95% of the questions. … Continue reading The Road Map to Solve Most of Your Issues Around Sex.
When you make love mindfully, not every moment is blissful and magical. Last night I was having sex. Not just sex - sex with a guy. A beautiful, slow, lovemaking session. It was really great and pleasurable, until at one particular moment when a tiny shift in position created a burning sensation in my vulva. Within … Continue reading Amazing, imperfect sex.
Thinking people don't take things at face value. We examine and explore and look at information to test if it holds true in our experience. This is true for women and men alike. And if you read my blog, there's a good chance you're one of us. This website is written for those who like … Continue reading Sexuality Myth Busting.
When you were three years old, you knew nothing about gender expression. You had long hair that was curling at the bottom, hair which I adored and enjoyed brushing and tying. Only you didn't like it. You wanted short hair like your best friend's, Theo. You insisted and persisted. I had a chat to you … Continue reading Thoughts about Parenting, Gender, and Sexuality.
First thing's first. I dislike the word masturbation. It sounds a bit clinical and somehow degrading. I much rather use terms like solo sex, or self-pleasuring. They are more beautiful and in line with conveying the new paradigm of sex that I am promoting. But... My title is so much better for search engines so … Continue reading Female Masturbation, Slow Sex Style
This one is for you if you are uncomfortable with sex and your sexuality. It's for you if the thought of sex makes you cringe a little. Or if you have mixed emotions of excitement and "yuckiness" and everything in between. It's also for you if you have an active, seemingly magnificent sex life, but … Continue reading Crossing the Line to Turn On Your Sex Life:
Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it. I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model. It didn't take me too long to disable comments on my site. Phew. Every now and … Continue reading Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.
When I started this blog, I was in a really beautiful relationship. It was the best relationship of my life so far. We had lots of things in common. We had a very intimate connection. The sex was the best I ever experienced with anyone. And the way we communicated with each other, verbally and … Continue reading Some on dating.
If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. It's written for those who invest, men that are totally turned on by the concept of making their partner happy in bed. It's also for men who heard about sexless marriages and want to avoid it in their relationship. … Continue reading This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.