A little while ago I wrote an article — “How to let go in bed”. In it, I addressed the most common reasons why women find it difficult to completely let go and surrender. I also listed a few practices that we can do, ongoingly, to help us release the tension surrounding our sexuality, generally. … Continue reading More on How To Let Go in Bed
Up until 12 years ago or so, I was really dissatisfied with my sex life. I was in a long-term relationship that could easily be described as sexless. We hardly had sex, and when we did, it wasn't that great - for either of us. We hardly talked about our sex life. I'm only guessing my … Continue reading It’s that confidence thing I tell ya’.
Most people think that miracles are something extraordinary. Like the parting of the sea, or the resurrection. This is how Google defines a miracle: an extraordinary and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore attributed to a divine agency. Truth is, it’s a miracle that you are even … Continue reading This is about Miracles.
As aware people, we understand that words have power. The power to create and the power to destroy. If you've ever looked into the topic you might have learned that some words are more empowering than others. And that some words can be omitted from our everyday language in order to help us manifest our … Continue reading The Empowering Sex Talk.
There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex. It could be a medication (antidepressants and hormonal contraceptives are the most infamous, but there are plenty of others) that’s the root cause of your loss of libido. Sometimes, it’s the consequence of sexual trauma that is lurking around and has a tremendously negative … Continue reading What to do if you lost interest in sex:
#1: I'm too busy. Busy busy busy. Between being a single mum and working on the Women's Sexuality Online Conference, I don't have much time to write. I don't have much time to socialize. I don't have much time to think about anything that is not parenting or project-specific. This is not a complaint! I love … Continue reading Why I Haven’t Been Writing about Sex Lately.
Shame: “ a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.” We know that there is nothing wrong or foolish about having sex, or with wanting to have sex, but we still feel ashamed. Or at least embarrassed. This has got to stop. Most of us grew up in … Continue reading Want to break free from shame around your sexuality?
I have shared a few TED and TEDx talks on this blog before. Talks that are bold, moving, and informative. I wanted to share another inspiring TEDx talk with you. The only problem is, it never took place. Sometimes, when the message involves the topic of sex and sexuality, people freak out. That's exactly what … Continue reading The TEDx Talk that Didn’t
Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? It's been a buzz word for a while some ten-years ago, and I think these days most people have some understanding of what it means. If you never read the book the Law of Attraction by Jerry and Esther Hicks, or saw the film (or read the book) … Continue reading The Law of Attraction and Sex.
The other day I had the honor of speaking to Xanet Pailet, the woman behind The Power of Pleasure. She said she had a different experience to something I wrote about orgasms. In my article "Things everything should know about the female orgasm" I stated that - an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. I mentioned that science … Continue reading I have yet to experience a G-Spot Orgasm.