The Empowering Sex Talk.

As aware people, we understand that words have power. The power to create and the power to destroy. If you've ever looked into the topic you might have learned that some words are more empowering than others. And that some words can be omitted from our everyday language in order to help us manifest our [...]

What to do if you lost interest in sex:

There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex. It could be a medication (antidepressants and hormonal contraceptives are the most infamous, but there are plenty of others) that’s the root cause of your loss of libido. Sometimes, it’s the consequence of sexual trauma that is lurking around and has a tremendously negative [...]

Why I Haven’t Been Writing about Sex Lately.

#1: I'm too busy. Busy busy busy. Between being a single mum and working on the Women's Sexuality Online Conference, I don't have much time to write. I don't have much time to socialize. I don't have much time to think about anything that is not parenting or project-specific. This is not a complaint! I love [...]

Want to break free from shame around your sexuality?

Shame: “ a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.” We know that there is nothing wrong or foolish about having sex, or with wanting to have sex, but we still feel ashamed. Or at least embarrassed. This has got to stop. Most of us grew up in [...]

The TEDx Talk that Didn’t

I have shared a few TED and TEDx talks on this blog before. Talks that are bold, moving, and informative. I wanted to share another inspiring TEDx talk with you. The only problem is, it never took place. Sometimes, when the message involves the topic of sex and sexuality, people freak out. That's exactly what [...]

The Law of Attraction and Sex.

Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? It's been a buzz word for a while some ten-years ago, and I think these days most people have some understanding of what it means. If you never read the book the Law of Attraction by Jerry and Esther Hicks, or saw the film (or read the book) [...]

I have yet to experience a G-Spot Orgasm.

The other day I had the honor of speaking to Xanet Pailet, the woman behind The Power of Pleasure. She said she had a different experience to something I wrote about orgasms. In my article "Things everything should know about the female orgasm" I stated that - an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. I mentioned that science [...]

I Want to Tell You About Arousal NonConcordance

I want the entire world to read Emily Nagosky's book Come As You Are. I mentioned her work here, with a link to her TEDx talk which summarises the most important principles from her book. One of the things which she explains in her book, which is what I would like to discuss here, is the [...]

Becoming a Confident Lover.

Meet the confident lover. A lover that expects that every sexual encounter will be absolutely enjoyable, both for themselves and for their partner. He or she is assured that what they do in bed will result in satisfaction. For the confident lover, sex is fun, exciting and fulfilling. Time and time again. Would you like [...]

I Let Go. This is What Happened. Now What?

What is letting go? Perhaps you came across this term before. In an early blog post, I talked about letting go in bed. By this, I meant how to enjoy yourself in bed without allowing your thoughts to ruin it for you. In another blog post (about monogamy), I mentioned the Sedona Method which is a [...]