When I started this blog, I was in a really beautiful relationship. It was the best relationship of my life so far. We had lots of things in common. We had a very intimate connection. The sex was the best I ever experienced with anyone. And the way we communicated with each other, verbally and … Continue reading Some on dating.
If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. It's written for those who invest, men that are totally turned on by the concept of making their partner happy in bed. It's also for men who heard about sexless marriages and want to avoid it in their relationship. … Continue reading This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.
I have been dealing with some anger in my life in recent years. You could detect some of my anger-influenced articles like this one about hormonal contraceptives or this one about Tantra. It's not directly related to women's sexuality, but indirectly, it does. Did a partner ever ask you if your period is nearly due … Continue reading Anger
A little while ago I wrote an article — “How to let go in bed”. In it, I addressed the most common reasons why women find it difficult to completely let go and surrender. I also listed a few practices that we can do, ongoingly, to help us release the tension surrounding our sexuality, generally. … Continue reading More on How To Let Go in Bed
Up until 12 years ago or so, I was really dissatisfied with my sex life. I was in a long-term relationship that could easily be described as sexless. We hardly had sex, and when we did, it wasn't that great - for either of us. We hardly talked about our sex life. I'm only guessing my … Continue reading It’s that confidence thing I tell ya’.
Most people think that miracles are something extraordinary. Like the parting of the sea, or the resurrection. This is how Google defines a miracle: an extraordinary and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore attributed to a divine agency. Truth is, it’s a miracle that you are even … Continue reading This is about Miracles.
As aware people, we understand that words have power. The power to create and the power to destroy. If you've ever looked into the topic you might have learned that some words are more empowering than others. And that some words can be omitted from our everyday language in order to help us manifest our … Continue reading The Empowering Sex Talk.
There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex. It could be a medication (antidepressants and hormonal contraceptives are the most infamous, but there are plenty of others) that’s the root cause of your loss of libido. Sometimes, it’s the consequence of sexual trauma that is lurking around and has a tremendously negative … Continue reading What to do if you lost interest in sex:
#1: I'm too busy. Busy busy busy. Between being a single mum and working on the Women's Sexuality Online Conference, I don't have much time to write. I don't have much time to socialize. I don't have much time to think about anything that is not parenting or project-specific. This is not a complaint! I love … Continue reading Why I Haven’t Been Writing about Sex Lately.
Shame: “ a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.” We know that there is nothing wrong or foolish about having sex, or with wanting to have sex, but we still feel ashamed. Or at least embarrassed. This has got to stop. Most of us grew up in … Continue reading Want to break free from shame around your sexuality?