Perfect long-term relationships do exist, but they look nothing like what we think “perfect” is. Drs John and Julie Gottman are not your ordinary celebrity couple. In fact, if you never researched the topic of relationships, there’s a good chance you don’t know who they are. Which is a shame, because they are probably the … Continue reading The Perfect … Read more
If you ever cried during your orgasm and wondered what the fuck it was all about, the answer is quite simple. The orgasm created a chain reaction that resulted in the release of some tension from your emotional body. Nothing more, nothing less. Perhaps you knew what this tension was about. But possibly, you had no … Continue reading Crying and … Read more
I recently resurrected my online dating profile. I’m back on a mission to find a suitable match and I’m taking it semi-seriously. One of the things which I tend to do, is look at the match percentage with potential candidates. I love this feature. Saves me some “interview questions” when we actually meet. One very … Continue reading How Often … Read more
In a Long-Term Relationship. You know how sex at the start of a relationship is exciting and intoxicating? You know how sex later on in the same relationship becomes boring and predictable? Well, it doesn’t have to be this way. And before I introduce you to the two approaches that will keep your sex life … Continue reading Two Approaches … Read more
For someone who writes about sex and relationships, I am as naive as it gets. Who am I kidding? I am naive in any standard, regardless of me writing about relationships and sex. I seem to always have an underlying assumption that the people I encounter along the way are the responsible, mature, conscientious kind. … Continue reading My First … Read more
Am I the odd one out? We were a group of friends at a bachelorette party cruise on the harbor. There were lots of other groups, some bigger, some smaller. All with their own bachelorette on the last party before holy matrimony. The bachelorettes were all recognizable by their mock wedding dress costumes. There was lots … Continue reading I’m … Read more
This is the same for men and women, by the way. If you are in a long-term relationship, and you have sex once a month on average (or less), your relationship is considered to be a sexless marriage. It is such a sad term. And it is estimated to affect a good 15%-20% of couples who … Continue reading What … Read more
Have you watched the Seinfeld episode “The Abstinence”? In this episode, George doesn’t have sex for 6 weeks and gradually transforms into a genius. The theory that is conveyed in that Seinfeld episode is that if you shift your focus from sex, your sexual energy could be harnessed into productive deeds. In other words, if … Continue reading Should You … Read more
Depends who you ask. I used to think that guys being concerned about their penis size is just a myth. Boy, was I wrong. Men who write to me either implicitly tell me they fear their penis is too small, or they just casually raise the topic of penis sizes in general. According to this … Continue reading Does Penis … Read more
Lately, I see lots of stories about anal sex. Some writers explain why they like it, some writers explain why they don’t. Some explain how amazing it feels as the receiver, others tell how good it is as the giver, and some are disgusted by the sheer thought of pushing anything inside the butt hole. … Continue reading The Anatomy … Read more