Talented Women Objectifying Their Body.

I’m going to use mainstream music videos as a reference point, as it happens there more than anywhere else I can think of.

The most amazingly talented women, with voices that send shivers up and down your spine, decide to use provocative clothing that show more than they conceal, dance moves that look like they were taken directly from a … Read more

Why Did It Happen to Me?

What we need to ask ourselves in order to fully heal.

Find the common thread:

I went to see one of my favorite therapists to help my body unblock itself from something rather yucky.

She casually mentioned that her wife has decided to leave her. After seven years as a family, raising their 4 children together, including their youngest which … Read more

When teachings get awkward.

I had an interesting discussion with one of my readers, about teachers and teachings.

There are so many amazing teachers out there, and at the end of the day, each one of us will resonate with a different teacher. There’s nothing wrong with that.

And still… Some teachers (or organizations that take it upon themselves to teach on behalf of … Read more

How can I want to want to have sex?

I received a few different versions of this question from my female readers:

“I think I might be asexual. Perhaps I did enjoy sex with my partner at some stage, and the truth is it’s not horribly bad – he’s actually making an effort to please me – but I’m just never in the mood. I’d rather do other things

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Crossing the Line to Turn On Your Sex Life:

This one is for you if you are uncomfortable with sex and your sexuality.

It’s for you if the thought of sex makes you cringe a little. Or if you have mixed emotions of excitement and “yuckiness” and everything in between.

It’s also for you if you have an active, seemingly magnificent sex life, but something doesn’t feel quite right.… Read more

It’s that confidence thing I tell ya’.

Up until 12 years ago or so, I was really dissatisfied with my sex life.

I was in a long-term relationship that could easily be described as sexless. We hardly had sex, and when we did, it wasn’t that great – for either of us. We hardly talked about our sex life. I’m only guessing my partner was as frustrated … Read more