There's a common advice I came across a few times, given for women at the beginning stages of dating a man. The advice is to not let the guy dictate the pace of progress of the sexual frontier. Without going to all the details of the advice, the theory goes something like this. Guys' interest in … Continue reading It is your responsibility to take things slowly.
I received a few different versions of this question from my female readers: "I think I might be asexual. Perhaps I did enjoy sex with my partner at some stage, and the truth is it's not horribly bad - he's actually making an effort to please me - but I'm just never in the mood. … Continue reading How can I want to want to have sex?
I have received a few emails from my female readers about the way they're experiencing sex with their long-term partners. They go something like this: "We are committed and we love each other very much but the sex is not that great. Although he tries to please me, makes sure I come before he does (or at … Continue reading The 30-Minutes Quicky
I have shared a few TED and TEDx talks on this blog before. Talks that are bold, moving, and informative. I wanted to share another inspiring TEDx talk with you. The only problem is, it never took place. Sometimes, when the message involves the topic of sex and sexuality, people freak out. That's exactly what … Continue reading The TEDx Talk that Didn’t
The other day I had the honor of speaking to Xanet Pailet, the woman behind The Power of Pleasure. She said she had a different experience to something I wrote about orgasms. In my article "Things everything should know about the female orgasm" I stated that - an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. I mentioned that science … Continue reading I have yet to experience a G-Spot Orgasm.
The orgasm gap is a term that refers to the well-researched reality that, generally speaking, men tend to have more orgasms than women while having sex. I would like to suggest an unorthodox approach to the reason why it exists. And to present a thought-provoking idea of how to eradicate it completely. Why is there … Continue reading Closing the Orgasm Gap
I recently conducted a survey among my readers, in which one of the questions that I asked was: "What would you like to know more of around the subject of your own sexuality?". A big percentage of the women readers answered, in one form or another - orgasm. The answers varied from simply "Orgasm" to … Continue reading Things Everyone Should Know about the Female Orgasm:
The importance of letting go in bed couldn't be stressed highly enough. Most of us have heard this and we understand that in order to fully enjoy the highs of sexual arousal with a man, and in order to be able to climax, we need to let go. To quote Dr. Louanne Brizendine from her … Continue reading How to Let Go in Bed.
In the last email of my e-course, I mention Orgasmic Meditation (OM). It's a simple technique of Slow Sex that is quite formal - as in, it has an easy-to-follow set of rules that can help with keeping your mind focused on the moment while practicing it. In my opinion, this method is very confronting, … Continue reading A Little About Orgasmic Meditation – A TEDx Talk by Bez Stone.
Female orgasm. It's a tricky subject for some women. It sure was a tricky one for me. According to a few popular medical websites, a huge percentage (70% or more, depending on where you got the information from) of women do not orgasm through intercourse alone. Reads: while the penis is inside the vagina, if there is … Continue reading The Best Orgasm I Never Had