Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it. I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model. It didn't take me too long to disable comments on my site. Phew. Every now and … Continue reading Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.
I have been dealing with some anger in my life in recent years. You could detect some of my anger-influenced articles like this one about hormonal contraceptives or this one about Tantra. It's not directly related to women's sexuality, but indirectly, it does. Did a partner ever ask you if your period is nearly due … Continue reading Anger
A little while ago I wrote an article — “How to let go in bed”. In it, I addressed the most common reasons why women find it difficult to completely let go and surrender. I also listed a few practices that we can do, ongoingly, to help us release the tension surrounding our sexuality, generally. … Continue reading More on How To Let Go in Bed
Most people think that miracles are something extraordinary. Like the parting of the sea, or the resurrection. This is how Google defines a miracle: an extraordinary and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore attributed to a divine agency. Truth is, it’s a miracle that you are even … Continue reading This is about Miracles.
There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex. It could be a medication (antidepressants and hormonal contraceptives are the most infamous, but there are plenty of others) that’s the root cause of your loss of libido. Sometimes, it’s the consequence of sexual trauma that is lurking around and has a tremendously negative … Continue reading What to do if you lost interest in sex:
When I started this website I had mainly women in long-term relationships in mind. Women that had been with the same partner for a while and their sex life is becoming less-than-optimal. Perhaps even much worse than that. To my surprise, I have quickly realized that many women who read my blog are in different situations … Continue reading Bringing your Mindful Approach to Sex into a New Relationship.
Perhaps you noticed the #MeToo campaign all over social media. One in four, you know? I guess I should mention that #MeToo. It wasn't anything major, but it still made me feel very uncomfortable. And I never mentioned anything about the incident to anyone until very recently - more than 25 years after it happened. … Continue reading #MeToo
There's an ongoing trend in recent years, which is becoming more mainstream these days. A call for women to embrace their femininity and for men to step into their masculinity. I used to think that this advice is generally good, and it made a lot of sense to me. Finally, a concrete advice in our confused … Continue reading The Male-Female Dynamics: It’s Time We Put an End to It.
In this blog post, I will briefly go through the two main strategies that the commonplace sex advice fall into, and why they don't actually work. Then I will explain the best strategy that is required in order for women to restore their ability to fully enjoy their sex life. Mainstream media is inundated with … Continue reading Why the Commonplace Sex Advice Doesn’t Work for Women