On Being Friends with Your Ex.

Research suggests that brain patterns after a breakup are similar to brain patterns of addiction.

If you are constantly thinking of your ex, perhaps even agonizing every time something reminds you of them — this is just a habit of your brain.

The best strategy you can adopt is to actually take a long time to make sure that your … Read more


In a recent article, I hinted what my views on abortions are. Truth is, I don’t really have a strong opinion and I believe what we really need, as a society and as individuals who are facing the dilemma of abortions, is a thorough understanding of everything at stake. And what I find lacking in most articles that I read … Read more

The Late Period.

One or two days late is not even a thing. Doesn’t need to be mentioned.

Three days late is still fine, no biggie.

Four days starts feeling a bit puzzled.

Five days the period is still not here. That’s strange. Should I be concerned? I’m looking at my app to see. When did we have sex exactly? Did we take … Read more

When teachings get awkward.

I had an interesting discussion with one of my readers, about teachers and teachings.

There are so many amazing teachers out there, and at the end of the day, each one of us will resonate with a different teacher. There’s nothing wrong with that.

And still… Some teachers (or organizations that take it upon themselves to teach on behalf of … Read more

Fasting and the Slow Sex

My guy recently did a 3-day water fast and raved how good it made him feel.

I was curious and decided to try it myself. Who knows? I might feel so good so why not?

Now, I am no health-guru and I won’t go over the health benefits and risks of such a fast. If you’re so inclined, feel free … Read more

Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.

Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it.

I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model.

It didn’t take me too long to disable comments on my site.


Every now and then, though, … Read more

This is about Miracles.

Most people think that miracles are something extraordinary. Like the parting of the sea, or the resurrection.

This is how Google defines a miracle:

an extraordinary and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore attributed to a divine agency.

Truth is, it’s a miracle that you are even reading these lines. The probability … Read more

What to do if you lost interest in sex:

There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex.

It could be a medication (antidepressants and hormonal contraceptives are the most infamous, but there are plenty of others) that’s the root cause of your loss of libido.

Sometimes, it’s the consequence of sexual trauma that is lurking around and has a tremendously negative impact on us.

Perhaps it’s … Read more