About a year ago, I stumbled upon an article that was just so damn inspiring. It was about this young man, Alex, and his reactions and actions after discovering that his girlfriend has a fetish called macrophilia. I never even heard about this fetish before reading that article. Basically, it’s when one is aroused by … Continue reading Your Partner’s Fetish is Not to Your Liking. Now What?
First, a confession. It looks like I’m not half as confident as I like to think of myself when it comes to sex. The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I … Continue reading Oral Issues
Perhaps it’s always been the case, but only now you are getting bothered by it. Or perhaps it’s a new situation you are dealing with. It’s common for couples to have different levels of desire and arousal. In any case, and your and your partner's gender doesn’t matter, the situation can be tricky. In this … Continue reading I Want to Have Sex More Often Than My Partner Does. What Can I Do About It?
Have you noticed how the excitement levels soar through the roof when you’re just starting to explore the body of a new partner? The excitement level usually fades quite significantly after the first few times you have sex, especially if you have sex regularly. It makes total sense, right? Everything about a potential new partner … Continue reading On Monogamy, Our Biological Urges, and Society’s Structure.
How often do you have sex? Is it once a month? Or once every 3 months? You know, it’s totally normal. Many parents of young children are in the exact same boat. I mean, really, your biggest priority in life is to care for your children. It’s a huge responsibility. You need to work to … Continue reading Having Sex as Parents of Young Children.
What we need to ask ourselves in order to fully heal. Find the common thread: I went to see one of my favorite therapists to help my body unblock itself from something rather yucky. She casually mentioned that her wife has decided to leave her. After seven years as a family, raising their 4 children … Continue reading Why Did It Happen to Me?
The end of January is just around the corner and I was wondering. In case you are hoping to make 2019 "The year I became so amazingly satisfied with my sex life." Have you thought what would actually make it happen? What is this thing that is missing from your life that would transform your … Continue reading The Secret of Becoming Confident in Your Sexuality.
The end of the fairytale. Our three months old baby was resting in the sling on my partner's chest. We were standing outside the complex where our friends live, the ones he sent me to speak to because he could not bring himself to do it himself. He equipped me with specific instructions of what to … Continue reading A Convoluted Fairytale.
I have received a few emails from my female readers about the way they're experiencing sex with their long-term partners. They go something like this: "We are committed and we love each other very much but the sex is not that great. Although he tries to please me, makes sure I come before he does (or at … Continue reading The 30-Minutes Quicky
Thinking people don't take things at face value. We examine and explore and look at information to test if it holds true in our experience. This is true for women and men alike. And if you read my blog, there's a good chance you're one of us. This website is written for those who like … Continue reading Sexuality Myth Busting.