What is Responsive Desire?

I write mainly about sex. Which makes me some sort of an authority on the matter, right? And some would think that I have sex all the time.

This is definitely not the case.

I have had many — and lengthy — dry spells. With no sex at all.

Actually, I’m in the midst of one right now, seeing my … Read more

On Being Friends with Your Ex.

Research suggests that brain patterns after a breakup are similar to brain patterns of addiction.

If you are constantly thinking of your ex, perhaps even agonizing every time something reminds you of them — this is just a habit of your brain.

The best strategy you can adopt is to actually take a long time to make sure that your … Read more