Oral Issues

First, a confession. It looks like I’m not half as confident as I like to think of myself when it comes to sex. The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I … Continue reading Oral Issues

I Want to Have Sex More Often Than My Partner Does. What Can I Do About It?

Perhaps it’s always been the case, but only now you are getting bothered by it. Or perhaps it’s a new situation you are dealing with. It’s common for couples to have different levels of desire and arousal. In any case, and your and your partner's gender doesn’t matter, the situation can be tricky. In this … Continue reading I Want to Have Sex More Often Than My Partner Does. What Can I Do About It?

On Monogamy, Our Biological Urges, and Society’s Structure.

Have you noticed how the excitement levels soar through the roof when you’re just starting to explore the body of a new partner? The excitement level usually fades quite significantly after the first few times you have sex, especially if you have sex regularly. It makes total sense, right? Everything about a potential new partner … Continue reading On Monogamy, Our Biological Urges, and Society’s Structure.

The 30-Minutes Quicky

I have received a few emails from my female readers about the way they're experiencing sex with their long-term partners. They go something like this: "We are committed and we love each other very much but the sex is not that great. Although he tries to please me, makes sure I come before he does (or at … Continue reading The 30-Minutes Quicky