The end of the fairytale. Our three months old baby was resting in the sling on my partner's chest. We were standing outside the complex where our friends live, the ones he sent me to speak to because he could not bring himself to do it himself. He equipped me with specific instructions of what to … Continue reading A Convoluted Fairytale.
I have received a few emails from my female readers about the way they're experiencing sex with their long-term partners. They go something like this: "We are committed and we love each other very much but the sex is not that great. Although he tries to please me, makes sure I come before he does (or at … Continue reading The 30-Minutes Quicky
Thinking people don't take things at face value. We examine and explore and look at information to test if it holds true in our experience. This is true for women and men alike. And if you read my blog, there's a good chance you're one of us. This website is written for those who like … Continue reading Sexuality Myth Busting.
If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. It's written for those who invest, men that are totally turned on by the concept of making their partner happy in bed. It's also for men who heard about sexless marriages and want to avoid it in their relationship. … Continue reading This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.
What is letting go? Perhaps you came across this term before. In an early blog post, I talked about letting go in bed. By this, I meant how to enjoy yourself in bed without allowing your thoughts to ruin it for you. In another blog post (about monogamy), I mentioned the Sedona Method which is a … Continue reading I Let Go. This is What Happened. Now What?
Last year, Christmas was outstanding. My daughter was away for a couple of days, spending Christmas with her dad. And I had time by myself, alone in the house on the outskirts of Sydney - along with the Eucalypts, the birds, and the quietness. I was really looking forward to staying at home and doing … Continue reading Reflections on a Sexy Christmas.
The orgasm gap is a term that refers to the well-researched reality that, generally speaking, men tend to have more orgasms than women while having sex. I would like to suggest an unorthodox approach to the reason why it exists. And to present a thought-provoking idea of how to eradicate it completely. Why is there … Continue reading Closing the Orgasm Gap
When I started this website I had mainly women in long-term relationships in mind. Women that had been with the same partner for a while and their sex life is becoming less-than-optimal. Perhaps even much worse than that. To my surprise, I have quickly realized that many women who read my blog are in different situations … Continue reading Bringing your Mindful Approach to Sex into a New Relationship.
Life was supposed to be much better, right? We found the partner that seems to be right for us. Sure, not perfect, but good for us. We thought we'll be able to have a good time with them. We thought we'll be able to sail the rocky seas of love and life with them. We … Continue reading Where Has my Fairy-Tale Life Gone To?
A few nights ago, while spending time with this special guy that was in my life for a little while now, the thought "I love you" appeared in my mind. It wasn't the first time this thought crept in. It popped into my head a few times since we got together some 9 months ago. … Continue reading When Do You Say “I Love You”?