Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? It's been a buzz word for a while some ten-years ago, and I think these days most people have some understanding of what it means. If you never read the book the Law of Attraction by Jerry and Esther Hicks, or saw the film (or read the book) … Continue reading The Law of Attraction and Sex.
Last year, Christmas was outstanding. My daughter was away for a couple of days, spending Christmas with her dad. And I had time by myself, alone in the house on the outskirts of Sydney - along with the Eucalypts, the birds, and the quietness. I was really looking forward to staying at home and doing … Continue reading Reflections on a Sexy Christmas.
Life was supposed to be much better, right? We found the partner that seems to be right for us. Sure, not perfect, but good for us. We thought we'll be able to have a good time with them. We thought we'll be able to sail the rocky seas of love and life with them. We … Continue reading Where Has my Fairy-Tale Life Gone To?
Some of us get confused between these two concepts. We think that the same things that turn us on are also the same things that feel pleasurable. But if you examine closely your own experience, you will most likely realize that the two are separate, distinct elements of your sexuality. At times, it is quite … Continue reading Arousal vs. Pleasure
The importance of letting go in bed couldn't be stressed highly enough. Most of us have heard this and we understand that in order to fully enjoy the highs of sexual arousal with a man, and in order to be able to climax, we need to let go. To quote Dr. Louanne Brizendine from her … Continue reading How to Let Go in Bed.
Last week I wrote the first part of the jade egg review. I mentioned you should only purchase a jade egg if you are dedicated enough to actually do the practice, which could prove quite demanding, at least at the beginning phase when you are only starting out. This week I'll tell you a little … Continue reading Jade Egg Review – Part II
Because I write about Slow Sex, people assume that I’m into Tantra. Which I am, to some degree. But I see a lot of confusion and misrepresentations of Tantra in some circles. In this article, I am addressing the misconceptions around Tantra that I come across. What is Tantra? First of all, do you know … Continue reading Tantra Shmantra
In the last email of my e-course, I mention Orgasmic Meditation (OM). It's a simple technique of Slow Sex that is quite formal - as in, it has an easy-to-follow set of rules that can help with keeping your mind focused on the moment while practicing it. In my opinion, this method is very confronting, … Continue reading A Little About Orgasmic Meditation – A TEDx Talk by Bez Stone.
If you are like many people in long-term relationships, I bet the question of opening your relationship to new adventures has crossed your mind. It's a hot debate. I get asked about it a lot, and it seems people are thinking about it more often than they would be willing to admit. As for myself, … Continue reading Why Monogamy is So Difficult, and Why Non-Monogamy is Not Necessarily The Answer.
April 2016. A friend's 70th birthday party. In front of a beautiful campfire under the stars, a few friends shared a sincere discussion on the topic of sex. And although it looks like most of the people that were present (myself included), wanted to open up and talk freely, we were all just skimming the surface … Continue reading Slow Sex as Experienced by Men – Part II