I think that confident lovers don't need my advice. They simply tell their partner what they want in sex. Easy. It's pretty much what I do these days. I almost forgot how I used to feel so embarrassed. Actually, I didn't tell my partner what I want and I what I need in bed. And … Continue reading Too Uncomfortable to Ask
Thinking people don't take things at face value. We examine and explore and look at information to test if it holds true in our experience. This is true for women and men alike. And if you read my blog, there's a good chance you're one of us. This website is written for those who like … Continue reading Sexuality Myth Busting.
First thing's first. I dislike the word masturbation. It sounds a bit clinical and somehow degrading. I much rather use terms like solo sex, or self-pleasuring. They are more beautiful and in line with conveying the new paradigm of sex that I am promoting. But... My title is so much better for search engines so … Continue reading Female Masturbation, Slow Sex Style
Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it. I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model. It didn't take me too long to disable comments on my site. Phew. Every now and … Continue reading Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.
If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. It's written for those who invest, men that are totally turned on by the concept of making their partner happy in bed. It's also for men who heard about sexless marriages and want to avoid it in their relationship. … Continue reading This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.
Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? It's been a buzz word for a while some ten-years ago, and I think these days most people have some understanding of what it means. If you never read the book the Law of Attraction by Jerry and Esther Hicks, or saw the film (or read the book) … Continue reading The Law of Attraction and Sex.
Last year, Christmas was outstanding. My daughter was away for a couple of days, spending Christmas with her dad. And I had time by myself, alone in the house on the outskirts of Sydney - along with the Eucalypts, the birds, and the quietness. I was really looking forward to staying at home and doing … Continue reading Reflections on a Sexy Christmas.
Life was supposed to be much better, right? We found the partner that seems to be right for us. Sure, not perfect, but good for us. We thought we'll be able to have a good time with them. We thought we'll be able to sail the rocky seas of love and life with them. We … Continue reading Where Has my Fairy-Tale Life Gone To?
Some of us get confused between these two concepts. We think that the same things that turn us on are also the same things that feel pleasurable. But if you examine closely your own experience, you will most likely realize that the two are separate, distinct elements of your sexuality. At times, it is quite … Continue reading Arousal vs. Pleasure
The importance of letting go in bed couldn't be stressed highly enough. Most of us have heard this and we understand that in order to fully enjoy the highs of sexual arousal with a man, and in order to be able to climax, we need to let go. To quote Dr. Louanne Brizendine from her … Continue reading How to Let Go in Bed.