Oral Issues

First, a confession.

It looks like I’m not half as confident as I like to think of myself when it comes to sex.

The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I was specifically after books about … Read more

When teachings get awkward.

I had an interesting discussion with one of my readers, about teachers and teachings.

There are so many amazing teachers out there, and at the end of the day, each one of us will resonate with a different teacher. There’s nothing wrong with that.

And still… Some teachers (or organizations that take it upon themselves to teach on behalf of … Read more

Too Uncomfortable to Ask

I think that confident lovers don’t need my advice. They simply tell their partner what they want in sex. Easy. It’s pretty much what I do these days.

I almost forgot how I used to feel so embarrassed. Actually, I didn’t tell my partner what I want and I what I need in bed. And on the rare occasions when … Read more

Sexuality Myth Busting.

Thinking people don’t take things at face value.

We examine and explore and look at information to test if it holds true in our experience.

This is true for women and men alike.

And if you read my blog, there’s a good chance you’re one of us.

This website is written for those who like to question what most people … Read more

Female Masturbation, Slow Sex Style

First thing’s first.

I dislike the word masturbation.

It sounds a bit clinical and somehow degrading.

I much rather use terms like solo sex, or self-pleasuring. They are more beautiful and in line with conveying the new paradigm of sex that I am promoting.

But… My title is so much better for search engines so I’m keeping it! Sorry if … Read more

Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.

Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it.

I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model.

It didn’t take me too long to disable comments on my site.


Every now and then, though, … Read more