First, a confession. It looks like I’m not half as confident as I like to think of myself when it comes to sex. The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I … Continue reading Oral Issues
I wish I had a dollar for every time a woman tells me that she told her loving and caring partner what pleases her in bed (usually more than once) and yet he doesn’t seem to follow through. He simply doesn’t do it, or does it once and that’s it, or does it for 30 … Continue reading This is How You Teach Your Man What You Want in Bed:
There's a common advice I came across a few times, given for women at the beginning stages of dating a man. The advice is to not let the guy dictate the pace of progress of the sexual frontier. Without going to all the details of the advice, the theory goes something like this. Guys' interest in … Continue reading It is your responsibility to take things slowly.
I had an interesting discussion with one of my readers, about teachers and teachings. There are so many amazing teachers out there, and at the end of the day, each one of us will resonate with a different teacher. There's nothing wrong with that. And still... Some teachers (or organizations that take it upon themselves … Continue reading When teachings get awkward.
I think that confident lovers don't need my advice. They simply tell their partner what they want in sex. Easy. It's pretty much what I do these days. I almost forgot how I used to feel so embarrassed. Actually, I didn't tell my partner what I want and I what I need in bed. And … Continue reading Too Uncomfortable to Ask
Thinking people don't take things at face value. We examine and explore and look at information to test if it holds true in our experience. This is true for women and men alike. And if you read my blog, there's a good chance you're one of us. This website is written for those who like … Continue reading Sexuality Myth Busting.
First thing's first. I dislike the word masturbation. It sounds a bit clinical and somehow degrading. I much rather use terms like solo sex, or self-pleasuring. They are more beautiful and in line with conveying the new paradigm of sex that I am promoting. But... My title is so much better for search engines so … Continue reading Female Masturbation, Slow Sex Style
Soon after I started this blog, the creepy crawlers started attacking it. I was flooded with comments from porn sites, penis enlargement miracles, and witch doctors that can miraculously bring back your husband even years after he left you for a super-model. It didn't take me too long to disable comments on my site. Phew. Every now and … Continue reading Damn-good (mostly) free sex tips.
If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. It's written for those who invest, men that are totally turned on by the concept of making their partner happy in bed. It's also for men who heard about sexless marriages and want to avoid it in their relationship. … Continue reading This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.
Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? It's been a buzz word for a while some ten-years ago, and I think these days most people have some understanding of what it means. If you never read the book the Law of Attraction by Jerry and Esther Hicks, or saw the film (or read the book) … Continue reading The Law of Attraction and Sex.