No matter how you look at it, sex is affected by your relationship, and your relationship is affected by sex.
And it's beneficial to know how to navigate them both.
Relationships of All Sorts
We better invest some time to doing them well.
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How to Let Go in Bed.
Why non-monogamy is not necessarily the answer.
The Intelligent woman approach to Meaningful Sex Explained.