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RELATIONSHIPS OF ALL SORTS.

No matter how you look at it, sex is affected by your relationship, and your relationship is affected by sex. 

And it's beneficial to know how to navigate them both.

Relationships of All Sorts

Relationships Can Be Complicated, but So Totally Worth It.

We better invest some time to doing them well.





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About 3 months ago my current boyfriend told me that I should teach people about

Not Talking About Sex

Recently I came across a wonderful article about fostering long-term relationships. It was called “Ten

The Best Relationship Tip I Haven’t Read

I write a lot about how sex, done in a slow, relaxed, calm manner, is

You Need to Learn to Say “No” In Order to Enjoy Your Sex Life

If you haven’t heard about Esther Perel, this is a brilliant introduction. She wrote the

The Secret to Desire in Long-Term Relationships: A TED Talk by Esther Perel

Someone confided in me recently that she thinks she is not attracted to her partner

How Can I Tell If I’m Still Attracted to My Partner?

If you are like many people in long-term relationships, I bet the question of opening

Why Monogamy is So Difficult, and Why Non-Monogamy is Not Necessarily The Answer.

**Video Added March 2021** As lovers, we want to be good for our partners. We

When Sex Becomes a Chore, and How to Change Things Around.

When I grew up, I heard that there are magazines that show naked women. They were

Porn as the Younger Generation’s Sex Educator.

Why is it that at the start of a new relationship (the "honeymoon" phase) we

Why are Relationships Hard? A TEDx Talk by Stan Tatkin

A few nights ago, while spending time with this special guy that was in my

When Do You Say “I Love You”?

Life was supposed to be much better, right? We found the partner that seems to

Where Has my Fairy-Tale Life Gone To?

When I started this website I had mainly women in long-term relationships in mind. Women that

Bringing your Mindful Approach to Sex into a New Relationship.

What is letting go? Perhaps you came across this term before. In an early blog

I Let Go. This is What Happened. Now What?

#1: I’m too busy. Busy busy busy. Between being a single mum and working on

Why I Haven’t Been Writing about Sex Lately.

There are many reasons why people might lose interest in sex. It could be a

What to do if you lost interest in sex:

If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read

This One is for the Guy Who Wants to Satisfy his Woman in Bed.

When I started this blog, I was in a really beautiful relationship. It was the

Some on dating.

When you were three years old, you knew nothing about gender expression. You had long

Thoughts about Parenting, Gender, and Sexuality.

Thinking people don’t take things at face value. We examine and explore and look at

Sexuality Myth Busting.

The end of the fairytale. Our three months old baby was resting in the sling

A Convoluted Fairytale.

A little while ago, I wrote an article about the power of using the right

Sexy Music

How often do you have sex? Is it once a month? Or once every 3

Having Sex as Parents of Young Children.

I wish I had a dollar for every time a woman tells me that she

This is How You Teach Your Man What You Want in Bed:

Have you noticed how the excitement levels soar through the roof when you’re just starting

On Monogamy, Our Biological Urges, and Society’s Structure.

Perhaps it’s always been the case, but only now you are getting bothered by it.

I Want to Have Sex More Often Than My Partner Does. What Can I Do About It?

First, a confession.It looks like I’m not half as confident as I like to think

Oral Issues

About a year ago, I stumbled upon an article that was just so damn inspiring.

Your Partner’s Fetish is Not to Your Liking. Now What?

Research suggests that brain patterns after a breakup are similar to brain patterns of addiction.

On Being Friends with Your Ex.

Saying: “I Love You.” The words “I love you” tend to pop into my head

Stupid Thing We Worry About in Our Relationships.

Some women are under the impression that they can tell if a man truly cares

Do You Want to Know If He Loves You So?…

You’ve been with your current partner for a few years now. Perhaps 2, 3 years.

It Only Takes One Sentence to Transform Your Sex Life.

Many people are under the impression that sex starts amazingly wonderful in a new relationship,

What People with a Great Sex Life in a Long-Term Relationship Have in Common:

I write mainly about sex. Which makes me some sort of an authority on the

What is Responsive Desire?

Fights are pretty much unavoidable, so you might as well do them well. The other day

How to Fight with Your Partner.

Have you watched the Seinfeld episode “The Abstinence”? In this episode, George doesn’t have sex

Should You Become Celibate?

This is the same for men and women, by the way. If you are in a

What to Do If Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Have Sex Anymore.

For someone who writes about sex and relationships, I am as naive as it gets.

My First “First Date” in a Very Long Time.

Perfect long-term relationships do exist, but they look nothing like what we think “perfect” is.

The Perfect Relationship Explained.

Some people are still under the impression that sex is something that women give to

It’s 2020. How Come Some People Still Believe That Women Owe Men Sex?

My 48-year-old friend told me about his dating experience with a millennial. They went on

8 Dating Rules for Non-Hookup Culture.

Our love affair started and ended with COVID-19. But COVID-19 is here to stay for

A Tale of a Lockdown Romance.

Remember Cinderella? Well. She had an evil stepmother and wicked sisters alright. And she was

No one told you this about Cinderella.

I was already seasoned in harsh breakups. I had some tough ones before. I wasn’t

How I got over my last breakup:

Many people think that sex is supposed to be spontaneous. This is the way we are

The Intimacy Date.

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 Thing anyway?

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The Intelligent woman approach to Meaningful Sex Explained.

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